One day almost two months ago, I was headed to a friend’s birthday luncheon… I was super excited to celebrate my dear friend, but never in a million years did I expect that day to be so extraordinary… nevermind so life changing!
I was riding down to the celebration with another one of my sweet friends when we stopped to unexpectedly pick up the guest of honor’s mother-in-law. She was visiting from out of town and was going to join us. I’ve admired this woman and was looking forward to having some time with her to chat and catch up on a beautiful, November afternoon in Florida.
So in the car we started talking and about 30 minutes or so later, she told me that she keeps updated on Sy and had been thinking of him a lot and proceeded to tell me about a couple of ideas that she had heard about. First of all, I was blown away by the fact that this busy woman who lives states away and doesn’t even know our family all that well, takes the time to stay updated on Sy but also spends time thinking of possible treatment options for my son! How amazing is that?
Anyway, she shared with me about this new therapy that has a learning clinic in San Diego and a patient clinic Mexico… As she spoke, things started clicking in my mind and in my heart. I’m sure she thought that it was just another conversation and just a mere act of kindness by sharing some of her ideas and thoughts… However to ME, this was more than an “act of kindness” but rather a conversation prompted by the Holy Spirit himself. She had no idea that this was the prefect conversation spoken at the perfect time. Little did we know that a week later, Sy’s doctor in Cincinnati would regrettably be telling us that “we are out of options” upon more failed biopsy results. Ordinarily this would have been completely overwhelming, disheartening, and saddening beyond words. My heart would have been shattered. Instead although a door was definitely closing, God had already opened a window a week earlier.
My friend’s mother-in-law shared with me about The Gerson Therapy that day. This therapy has been used to treat many diseases–mostly those who have suffered severe stage four cancer where chemo and radiation have failed. This therapy is often found for those whom the doctors have said, “We are out of options.” Granted Sy is not dying by any means, but we’ve noticed a gradual and steady decline. Jordan and I both have sensed that we’re slowly losing his health. This therapy sounded crazy but perfect! At this point, what did we have to lose?
So we’ve spent the last two months researching and researching. We’ve read all the positives and all of the criticisms… So we gave it to God. We know He will heal Sy and will provide a way… This therapy was something we desired to pursue, but the regimen and cost are just overwhelming. You see, there is no way that we can do this on our own. It will take a “village” to help us. Although the theory sounds amazing, the reality of it seems almost impossible. But of course with God, nothing is impossible. Absolutely nothing.
Meanwhile, the windows have started flying open… And I mean FLYING!! (I guess those details will have to be for another blog entry.)
The point of all of this jibber-jabber is that words of encouragement no matter how small or mere acts of kindness are always needed and the Holy Spirit can use them to radically change or even save people’s lives. Literally. That one encouraging conversation two months ago I will forever remember and I know Sy’s life will never be the same. Thank you!
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For a great message, please listen to Carrying the Gospel/Active Kindness…
